I’m jaclyn lanae

I’m a relationship coach, author, and writer who works with people in relational crisis—moments when it feels like there is no choice but to change… something.

My approach is grounded in self-love and self-trust, with a spiritual orientation that stays practical and embodied. I don’t tell clients what to do. I help them hear themselves more clearly, understand their patterns, and make choices they can stand behind.

People often come to me after years of trying to “figure it out” alone. What we do together is quieter, deeper work—learning how to stay connected to yourself while being in relationship with others.

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If you struggle with self confidence, feel unsatisfied in relationships, perpetually worry, agonize over decisions, feel unloved… you are actually looking for a deeper connection. To yourself; your soul-self.

I’ve been there. I can help.

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Crashing: the me I was documentary

By drumsong media

Crashing: The Me I Was film about Jaclyn Lanae, based on her book The Me I Was narrating her emotional healing and personal empowerment journey from broken body and soul to deep spirituality, unshakable self love, and total personal transformation. She now specializes in supporting healing others in their quest to heal trauma and find their personal empowerment with self love.